Hate your job but can’t quit? 9 ways to stop the dread and manifest job satisfaction
I used to be in a job I hated. Every Sunday evening I’d sit on my sofa with a pit of dread in my stomach (Sunday Scaries anyone?) knowing I was back at work the next day.
I thought about quitting, but I was only three months in to a new job. Instead, I decided to apply everything I knew about manifesting. I consciously changed how I felt about my work, and in return, my work shifted.
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Here are 9 powerful things you can do if you want to:
stop dreading work
learn to love your job again
prepare to find something new
1. Reframe your mindset: focus on the benefits of your job
Instead of focusing on what you don’t like about your work, reframe it, and start thinking about the benefits.
Think about:
The salary that helps cover your expenses and buy things you need and want
The skills you’re learning – you can take these skills to a new job
The people you meet at work who can become part of your network or a friend
Keep a list of these benefits and add to it every time you think of something new.
The more time you spend in the energy of how work is benefiting you, the more benefits you’ll see, and the better you’ll feel. When you notice you’ve started to feel better, acknowledge yourself for shifting your vibration into a higher frequency.
2. Maximise your role: gain new skills and training
I had a friend who took free training at work to become a mental health first aider. He loved it so much, he retrained as a counsellor, eventually quitting his job and becoming a therapist.
It can feel like our job is all take and no give. So get everything you can from your job. You could:
Ask to be sent on courses
Volunteer for projects that stretch you
Make suggestions for improvements and offer to implement them
You’ll gain new insights which may spark new passions, and gain skills you can offer to a new employer.
3. Improve work relationships: build a supportive network
Some of my best friendships began in the workplace, and I get job offers from people I worked with years ago.
Extend your hand and invite a colleague for an in-person or online coffee and chat. You can talk about work, or what you enjoy outside of the workplace.
Even just one positive work friendship can radically change how your day feels.
4. How to deal with difficult colleagues by finding common ground
I once worked with a woman I found incredibly irritating. One day I decided to find things to appreciate about her. After a few weeks we started getting on much better, and developed a good working relationship.
If someone is driving you crazy, try finding one thing you can appreciate or value about them (easier to do when you’re not around them). Maybe they have a decent sense of humour or once helped you out with something.
Finding the positive in another person shifts your energy, and then when you engage with them, they interact with you on the level of your positive focus.
5. Refresh your workspace to boost productivity and mood
When was the last time you gave your workspace a spruce up?
The objects around us soak up our energy, and if we’ve been feeling off about work, having a clear out can signal a reset. So give your desk, locker, or tool bag some attention.
Clear out clutter
Clean, dust and polish
Organize your tools or files
Add something fresh – a plant, a picture, or a new tool
A simple refresh can feel like a clean slate.